Mark Wisterman's Paradise & Lake Oroville Real Estate Blog

A few years back I had the opportunity to help a nice couple sell their Lake Oroville house. It was a house they had lived in for a very long time. They had raised two children to adulthood there and were now enjoying  visits from their grandchildren.

One day as the transaction for the sale of the property was coming to a close I had occasion to meet with them about their transaction. During our conversation the wife was telling me that she felt bad about selling the property. When I asked her why, she said that she felt sad that she was selling her “home.” At that point I said to her, “You’re selling your house, you get to take your home with you.” She was puzzled by my comment until I explained that her “home” was simply contained within the house. Her home was all the memories she enjoyed in the house. All the photos, the furniture, the keepsakes and all those things hanging from refrigerator magnets, along with all the memories while living there, were all things that she gets to take with her to her next house, to turn IT into a home.

Over my nearly 16 years in the Lake Oroville real estate business I have seen many sellers struggle emotionally with the sale of their property. In fact, so much so,  that it can sometimes actually negatively affect their decision making process. Negotiating from an emotional standpoint is never a good thing.

For some sellers, and prospective sellers, this little bit of advice I am going to give you may not be what you want to hear but I think it is vital to your ultimate goal of selling your property.

The minute you decide to sell your dwelling you need to put it out of your mind that you are selling your home. The thought that you are selling your home needs to be replaced with the thought that you are selling a house. A house is a commodity and you need to do the best you can do to make this your mindset from the time you decide to sell through the entire escrow process.

To do otherwise runs the risk of making  decisions that could cost you the opportunity to sell at the best price. It can actually cost you an opportunity to sell at all.

Nearly every REALTOR® can tell you a story of a seller who was  ‘offended’ by a buyer’s offer because of an emotional attachment to their house. What normally happens in these instances is that the seller will either reject the buyer’s offer or be totally inflexible during the negotiation process, resulting in the buyer deciding to buy a different house.  Inevitably the frustrated seller eventually either takes the house off the market or ends up selling it for much less that the original buyer’s “offensive” offer.

Becoming emotionally detached from the property you are selling can be be very difficult. But, as hard as this may be for some of you to hear or read,  for your own financial well being, is something that is necessary to accomplish.

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